It is painful to wake up

Psychotherapy is of no help to people who suffer from serious self-deceptions. A therapist would never tell his client that he is a needy sucker, even if this is his main problem. If his client is a selfish, narcissistic asshole, he will not tell her that this is the case. It is pointless. She is not listening. It is as if a medical doctor doesn't tell his patient that she has diabetes because she doesn't like negative news.

The needy sucker has a chance to wake up if he gets ditched by a narcissist; he can pick himself up, but the narcissists die in their delusions.

Needy suckers ought to be immensely grateful if they have the luck to be connected to a narcissist. Narcissists serve an important role in life. Without them, suckers would also die in their miserable delusions. Narcissists are doing what nice and understanding therapists don't dare to do.