Someone is trying to
figure out how to open a door but gets frustrated. He is locked out.
He is banging and shaking the handle. Has he lost the key or has he
never had any?
I want to tell him that he
should try a loving approach but realize that
that wouldn't work either. The door is locked. Rational thinking,
love, or brute force make no difference. I don't know either how to
open the door.